"It’s not just that she makes him a better person. She does, but, he changes her too. Damon challenges her, surprises her. He makes her question her life, beliefs. Stefan is different. His love is pure and he’ll always be good for her. Damon is either the best thing for her or the worst.” ____________________________________________
You want a love that consumes you, you want passion and adventure. And even a little danger.
"You don't always win, but everytime you lose you get better"
